Changing the People-Pleasing Instinct

Changing the People-Pleasing Instinct

When our helpfulness crosses the line into people-pleasing, we create friction in our lives. Remembering that every “yes” is connected to a “no” can help.

Micro-Steps Are Critical to Success

Micro-Steps Are Critical to Success

One thing I’ve learned is that your baby step may be my long jump. Sometimes, even baby steps are too big. That’s why I advocate for micro-steps.

Asking for Help Is an Important Skill

Asking for Help Is an Important Skill

There are several excuses we give ourselves to explain why we don’t ask for the help we need. None of them are accurate, though we believe they are.

Opening the Door to the New Self

Opening the Door to the New Self

When we think about changing our minds and how we think, we often think of the perfectionism or fears we live with, and focus on how to get rid of them. The apostle Paul challenges us to think differently, to think of changing our minds as part of the process of putting on our “new self.” One practical way to do this is challenging our Thinking Distortions.

Putting Together Your Self-Care Plan

Putting Together Your Self-Care Plan

Even when we know the importance of putting together a good self-care plan, it can feel overwhelming to do. Four pillars? Each pillar has multiple pieces? The heart races and the breathing gets shorter. Let’s slow it down and tackle this process – together.

The Four Pillars of Good Treatment Plans

The Four Pillars of Good Treatment Plans

While treatment plans come in all shapes and sizes, there are four pillars that form the foundation of every self-care plan. Creating a self-care plan that addresses our physical, mental, spiritual, and relational needs is a key step in our recovery process. No two plans look the same, nor could they.

The White Pill: My Journey to Bipolar Disorder

The White Pill: My Journey to Bipolar Disorder

“Before we can determine what else is going on, we need to address your depression.” The blood drained out of my face. Depression? Of all the outcomes I expected from this appointment, a diagnosis of “depression” wasn’t even on the list. It’s just not how I thought of myself. Maybe at other times of my life, but not now.”

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